When its ok to “Break the Law”

lovelyandbrown:

"Women love to tear each other down… correction, insecure women love to tear other women down. This slandering usually happens in their head, in front of their keyboard, or behind that rival woman’s back when in the company of a fellow hater. I saw one of these shade throwing memes on instagram… we all know basic bitches push out slander memes like hood chicks push out fatherless children. This one went something like “These men say they want a Bad Bitch, when they should be after a woman that takes cares of her responsibilities blah blah blah something about goals blah blah blah something about education” At that moment it dawned on me that I’ve never seen a woman that’s happy (not Facebook happy, real life happy) and content focus on what men say they want in another woman. I’ve spent time with extremely successful females and I can’t recall a side-comment being made about fake hair or ass shots.  Only when I turn to the internet do I see so much animosity by women directed at other women and the men who choose them. Confident women don’t have time to comment, they’re too busy concentrating on what’s most important—self! The Seattle Seahawks don’t release a statement when the Miami Dolphins pick up a player, because winners don’t acknowledge losers. Those with nothing to do always have something to say, and it’s time someone called these people off the porch.”

My favorite blog, Black Girls are Easy, serving up that real shit.

Gotta get it together

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This was tge best day of my life and I ain’t going back…. Doing a rebuild for “Me”

This was tge best day of my life and I ain’t going back…. Doing a rebuild for “Me”

…but when your support system never gives up on you and prays for you just as much as you pray for yourself, if not more watch how well you embrace the #change! #growth #prosperity #facingfears #beingfearless

…but when your support system never gives up on you and prays for you just as much as you pray for yourself, if not more watch how well you embrace the #change! #growth #prosperity #facingfears #beingfearless

Learning that if the fight ain’t in you just like with anything else u will fail… #fighton #clearshead

Learning that if the fight ain’t in you just like with anything else u will fail… #fighton #clearshead

Lol so serious…. #chicago #chitown #mycitymydream #mcmd

Lol so serious…. #chicago #chitown #mycitymydream #mcmd

Love is more then a simple “I love you!” Y’all might think I’m crazy but its more then the man or woman being able to pay the bills, cook a meal, fuck u good, or saying, “look at me Im not cheating.” Remember ppl can do all these things and still have another life. Love is an action word that comes not only with the genuine desire to do the things I mentioned above and stay true to them but the ability to do those things even thru the good and the bad. I’ve never believed in soul mates but I do believe that two ppl that realize that it gets worst before it gets better and is willing to work at that will have everlasting love. Real love is being able to do and show the unexpected. Do the things that allows you to step out the box and show your love sometimes when even when u don’t want to. Surprise them here and there! Ppl believe that it takes a lot of money or money period to show love. It doesn’t!!! Give ppl their flowers while they are amongst the living. Surprise them with a rose or two, a picnic, a romantic walk on the beach. Send them some fruit. Just show sometimes they’re different. They might not need it but it might just brighten their day. Tomorrow is not promised!!! 💞💏💑😘😍

Love is more then a simple “I love you!” Y’all might think I’m crazy but its more then the man or woman being able to pay the bills, cook a meal, fuck u good, or saying, “look at me Im not cheating.” Remember ppl can do all these things and still have another life. Love is an action word that comes not only with the genuine desire to do the things I mentioned above and stay true to them but the ability to do those things even thru the good and the bad. I’ve never believed in soul mates but I do believe that two ppl that realize that it gets worst before it gets better and is willing to work at that will have everlasting love. Real love is being able to do and show the unexpected. Do the things that allows you to step out the box and show your love sometimes when even when u don’t want to. Surprise them here and there! Ppl believe that it takes a lot of money or money period to show love. It doesn’t!!! Give ppl their flowers while they are amongst the living. Surprise them with a rose or two, a picnic, a romantic walk on the beach. Send them some fruit. Just show sometimes they’re different. They might not need it but it might just brighten their day. Tomorrow is not promised!!! 💞💏💑😘😍

Life is to short… Tell them and show appreciation why you can. I have toooo many to tag so….I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!

Life is to short… Tell them and show appreciation why you can. I have toooo many to tag so….I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!

Out with the old… In with the NEW

Out with the old… In with the NEW